Today’s guest post is from my friend John Sherry, writer at The 100% You blog. John is passionate about living his life to the fullest, and helping you to do the same. If you’ve been tip-toeing around the blogsphere quietly, today is your day to jump in and leave a comment for John. He always engages with a smile! Please make John welcome ~
We’re all so scared of failure.
The dreaded ‘F’ word.
To many failure is a personal rejection by the world or by life itself. It shows that they don’t add up to much and never will.
It’s easy to see why.
Relationships might not have worked or love never permanently came to stay. A good career has given way merely to various jobs with low prospects and money has been an ongoing challenge with finances always mixed at best.
But, actually this is proof, if ever you needed it, that you’re not failing but gradually and steadily winning and that any time soon it’s all going to wonderfully come together.
Here are the precise reasons why you can never really fail whatever happens.
1. Practice makes perfect.
Ask any sporting star and they will tell you that their defeats helped them hone their talents to become a champion. For sport read life.
When you lose, you learn. When you recognise these lessons and take what they tell you, tipping the scales in your favour has begun. A loss is merely a victory inside out.
2. You are discovering yourself.
Who says that the dream career you had in mind was your true calling?
Your setbacks, work related or otherwise, may be an opportunity in disguise forcing you to uncover greater skills and unknown abilities that are your real genius in waiting.
If you hadn’t failed to win the role you’d set your heart on you wouldn’t have found out the secret brilliance you know can develop into something masterful.
3. You are being saved.
Many a failure turns out to be a relief in the end.
Countless situations that first appeared awesome on the surface turn out to be a disaster in the long run. If you’d succeeded you would be caught up right in the middle of it.
Failures prevent things becoming more expensive, emotionally draining, or even plain dangerous.
When things don’t work out perhaps a better option is about to show up or a devastating one is about to go away.
You may have just been saved.
4. You’ve made it this far.
Take a look back at your life up to this point.
It’s probably been a roller coaster of ups and downs, good times and tough periods. You’ve laughed and cried in equal measure but you know what?
You’ve got through. You’ve made it. You’re still here.
So you are a true survivor who has what it takes to beat anything that life can throw at you and a happy soul who has the ability to enjoy every special moment you are granted. You have before and you will again.
You can’t fail because you’ve never ever failed.
You are a success story through and through. Well done you!
Sure life can hurt and you can convince yourself many times over that you’ve failed and flopped but, in reality, you’ve merely improved and bettered yourself meaning the potential for ultimate happiness is now within your grasp.
Through every error and mistake and day you’ve felt beat you’ve been building your wisdom and sharpening your talents . And now it’s time to fail no more.
Where you’ve not succeeded, now you can go and claim the prize.
Where results have been disappointing, now they can be first class.
Where life has been a let down, now it’s going to soar.
And where you’ve failed, you’re going to see that you were shining your very best for the world to see.
Because you are you and that means you’re a real living winner and today is where it all begins!
John Sherry is a blogger and coach who writes The 100% YOU blog on how to discover, love, and enjoy yourself. He believes that we are all inbuilt with individual brilliance and that our own identity and personality is all we need to accept and celebrate for that to come to life. His mantra is ‘Be true, be you’.
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