There’s alot of information in the blogsphere about maximizing contacts, about expanding social media connections, and about how to keep people coming back.
I’m quick to bookmark those tidbits, but to be honest, I seldom get back to read them. If I’m on my laptop I’m writing or catching up on comments.
At this point in my blogging experience, I pretty much friend anyone who pops up on Facebook. My blog is about healing and wholeness, so I’m happy for anyone I’m in contact with to benefit from what I write. There are plenty of people on my Facebook Friend list that I don’t know, haven’t met, and wouldn’t recognize if I saw them on the sidewalk.
My birthday was this week. Some of my ‘Friends’ saw it on Facebook and they wished me Happy Birthday.
I heard from old high school friends, and from people I never even talked to in high school. My cousins from around the country, new blogging friends from around the world, people I knew, and people I’ve never even communicated with before, all sent good wishes.
The great thing was that each person, whether I knew them or not, made me smile. I was just as excited to get a wish from a ‘virtual’ stranger as I was from my childhood friends. Birthday wishes are timeless and universal.
Toward the end of the day one of my high school friends sent along a birthday wish, and said “I was going to wish you Happy Birthday on your ‘Wall’, but wasn’t able to post it”. Hummm … I was curious, about why my ‘Wall’ wasn’t available for comments, I’d need to check the settings.
Suddenly I realized that each person who’d wished me Happy Birthday on Facebook had done it with intention. Rather than simply clicking ‘Like’, or joining in the slew of Happy Birthday comments that someone else started earlier in the morning (not that there’s anything wrong with that), they went to the trouble to send the message directly to me.
This doesn’t make me feel any more special or important than anyone else. It does make me think that I have some pretty special ‘Friends’, and it reminds me that the world is full of good, kind people.
Sometimes we find that Social Networking can get personal…and that’s a very comforting sort-of thing to know.
Take good care,
Thanks to Foxtongue for the beautiful birthday party image, taken in 1934.
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